If most people can be good friends with their ex , you are the opposite. Like a cat and a mouse, you can never get along even though you’ve never met. Even though when you were still dating, you rarely fought until you got really angry. At least quietly for a few days. After that, it’s over because someone always gives in. But when they broke up, the axis of contention seemed to be getting eroded. Whatever you do is always the attention of this former one . Until you have to close the gap to communicate so as not to spoil your own mood.
For those of you who are still wondering about this annoying ex, Hipwee has a few things that might be the reason. Who knows after reading this, you’ll know why your ex is super annoying and disturbing your life.
1. Your relationship ended badly. He has high expectations about the relationship while you want it to be over
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The end of your relationship can be said to be not as smooth as it used to be. In the past, you welcomed love with open arms, but when you broke up, it was the other way around. There are no eyes and words that are comfortable to hear, instead there are mutual mistakes. This relationship that did not end well then made the hopes that he used to hold high slowly crumble. It was this collapse of hope that had caused him not to accept it until now. Until the remnants of hope finally made him become an annoying figure.Advertisement
2. After being together for so long, he feels he has a right to your life. Even though your relationship is long gone
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It can be said, dating is a moment of getting to know each other. This recognition process makes you start to open yourself up. Goods and shortcomings begin to emerge as you become more comfortable in sharing. But after you broke up, the process of getting to know each other stopped. You who really want to end, now no longer look back. But he couldn’t do the same.
He continues to reflect on the past and thinks he still has the right to your life. That’s why every time you do something, he always itch if you don’t intervene. Makes you irritated and want to get rid of him from life.
3. There is envy when you now have a new trailer. While he hasn’t completely moved on from you
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Envy is often evil. He can influence a person from good to bad. Like your ex now. Because you’re jealous that you can move on first and now have a partner, your ex becomes cynical on social media. Sadly, he often acts like a victim, as if you were the one who left him first. Yet everything is clear. He himself has not been able to make peace with the past, which should have been tightly closed.
4. Because of excessive affection and then disappear in the middle of the road, the way he looks at you changes. For him whatever you do is always wrong
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Everything is not good if done too much. Likewise in relationships, loving and caring too deeply will make someone’s heartbreak unbearable. This is another reason behind your ex turning into a nuisance. The end of your relationship is a moment where his perspective immediately changes because you love him too deeply. From what used to be a pity, now it becomes annoying and hates. Until the end, whatever you do is always wrong in his eyes. Even though what you are doing has absolutely nothing to do with him.
5. It could be that he wants to prove that his life is happier even without you. But the fall makes you uncomfortable
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In addition to envy, a sense of prestige can also turn someone into an annoying person. Like your ex. Due to his prestige, he became obsessed with telling the world that he was fine. But the way to make you uncomfortable and tired soul. One of them is because he always compares his life before and after a relationship with you. Who doesn’t feel uncomfortable trying to be compared, even though there is no relationship between the two of you?
6. Or basically he really sucks. That’s why even after breaking up, that trait still follows
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If this is another. There are times when someone is already annoying from there. When dating first, it might be annoying, it’s still an ordinary level. But after being heartbroken, the annoying level doubled. It’s really hard if your ex already has the seeds of annoying nature. Even after breaking up, you will always be annoyed and irritated because of his behavior that makes the mood messy.
In this life there are many things that need to be faced. One of them is an ex who turns into the most annoying figure on earth. You need to take a stand if the annoying thing is out of bounds. Because a new leaf in your life has been opened, it’s time for you to be free from annoying ex’s distractions which if you respond to them only waste energy.
